On Mentorship
In Sheryl Sandberg's book "Lean In", she talks about how some women will ask for mentors but good/great mentors are borne out of circumstances and not from asking. I agree with her to some extent... Remember when I was depressed about grad school? Well...in March I got to attend a Gordon conference in Galveston, TX. I didn't go with my PI but rather, one down the hall who is an expert in the field of megakaryocyte research. There, we went on daily runs and when it got time for him to present, I helped him put together a powerpoint on my work (including myself in the acknowledgement slide at the end). What surprised me was that he was so gracious even though I was just trying to be a good grad student. He not only introduced me to all the big names in the field but he also had my picture up in one of his first slides...acknowledging my work up front. Yes, I'm prone to flattery but what resulted was the beginning of a great mentorship. He has since propelled my...